A FREE LIVE CALL WITH FABIAN · 31.10.2026 · 1PM UK · 8PM BALI
You see the pattern. You make the plan. And somehow, you end up back where you started.
Fixing yourself was never going to work.
There was never anything wrong with you.
Takes 30 seconds · Capped at 100 people
HOW PEOPLE FEEL AFTERWARDS
THE CYCLE YOUR STUCK IN
It usually starts with a moment of real clarity.
You see it clearly. Maybe it's…
- The drinking
- The scrolling
- The project you keep putting off
- The conversation you keep avoiding
- So you make a plan.
- For a while it holds.
- Then, slowly, without any single moment you could point to, you're back where you began.
And you're now a little more convinced that the problem is you.
That's why you can be surrounded by people and still feel lonely.
Why you can do everything right on paper and still feel something is missing.
Why you can want to change more than anything, and still find yourself in cycles.
UNDERSTANDING THE CYCLE
The behaviour is the last thing to change. So we start underneath it.
As a child, you found ways to stay safe. They worked.
They're still running, long after you needed them.
Discipline targets the behaviour. The pattern lives deeper, in three places.
01
How you see yourself
the version of you that you learned to be, often before you had any say in it.
02
Whether you trust yourself
every promise that didn't hold teaches you not to believe the next one.
03
The stories you tell
about where you've come from, and so, quietly, about where you're allowed to go.
FIXING THE CYCLE
What we'll do together on the call
Name the cycle
The habits you keep returning to.
Find what it protects
What those behaviours help you avoid.
Work through it
Live, together, as a group.
Bring your questions
Open Q&A on your own situation.
IN THEIR OWN WORDS
What shifts for people who spend time with this work.
Unedited messages and comments from people who have watched the videos and sat in the room.
WHO AM I?
Hello,
It is my intention to help you deepen the relationship you have with yourself, as a path towards a more nourishing life.
Where it began
Since before I can remember, I've had a natural inclination towards helping people unravel the stories they've come to believe about themselves.
These are the stories that keep us looping through the same patterns, returning to the same people, and living further from the life we know we're capable of.
What changed
Through my own turbulent youth, I've gained insights that have led me away from paths of destruction and towards a life of deeper connection: with myself, with others, and with the people I love.
What I believe
The relationship we have with ourselves is reflected in every area of our lives.
And ultimately, it is through relationship, with ourselves and with others, that we find our greatest source of sustenance, support and opportunity for growth.
My intention is not to tell you who you should be, but to help you see more clearly who you already are, beyond the stories, symptoms and strategies.
Fabian
BEFORE YOU COME
Two reasons, honestly. You can't know whether this work is for you by reading about it. You have to sit in the room with it. And I've always felt uneasy about this kind of help only being there for people who can afford it. Doing these calls for free means more people get to come.
No. It's a working session, with time for your questions at the end.
No. Plenty of people just listen, and still get a lot from it.
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No. It's a guided group session. If you need clinical support, please speak to your GP or a qualified professional.
Up to 100. Once it's full, registration closes.
You don'y need more info. This is about forming a different relationship with yourself.
If this speaks to you, come and sit in the room with me.
SATURDAY 31.10.2026 · LIVE ON ZOOM · 1PM UK · 8PM BALI
Takes 30 seconds · Capped at 100 people